Selfless Morale or Plain Hypocrisy? Expressing Your Anger On A Third Party Reflects Your Self-centered Nature!
As is believed that people who would do selfless things by telling the right from the wrong are mostly virtuous and are most certainly not self-absorbed is a complete lie. The psychologists point out that people, who would voice their judgment out in the open and speak about what is right and what is wrong are inherently doing a selfish thing.
According to Mail Online, the Bowdoin College in Maine and the Southern Mississippi University have come up with a research material that would put people on the spot. The researcher would provide everybody with a fabricated story, and it was seen that when one had to put the blame upon them, they would react differently, than the ones who were handed with articles that would require them to put the blame on others. The researchers were convinced that people, by finding a method of catharsis would only find the true morale in themselves.
The moral of this story is that, when a person feels guilty, that person feels obligated to put the blame on others. This has been a ritual when it comes to human behavior. The moment one is to face something that might make him look guilty; he must reverse his role and make himself less like the one who should be punished, revealed Reason.
Now, that being said, the only valid way, this person would vent out their true anger is by putting the blame on others and thereby speaking of things which are morally right for any human being. This way, he is not only taking his anger out, but he is also feeling a lot less guilty than he was previously, making it a selfish thing to do.
Although, no one is saying that this is a bad habit, or one should not engage in such 'discrepancies, ' but it is just a fact that is being stated, through these research papers.