Relationship Tips: How To Identify And Maintain The Spark In A Relationship

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In today's hectic world full of gadgets, the relationship seems like a Sudoku puzzle. If the right numbers are not used in the right places without overdoing, then it's hard to reach the destination point. And for every relationship, the destination point is an everlasting happy relationship with full of joy and love.

Every person in a relationship tries hard to keep the spark burning, but only a few people succeed in doing so. Even after hearing lots of advice from the relationship advisers all over the world,  still many relationships fall apart. The celebrity breakup stories teach that, for a relationship to work fame, beauty, money and power has nothing to offer.

According to Dailymail, the relationship expert Tracey Cox has some serious relationship advice to give. Tracey points out that having a chemistry between two people are the utmost important ingredient for a happening relationship. Chemistry in a relationship happen and is not something that can be made. Chemistry is the instant feeling that happens between a couple and the string which makes the bond stronger.

The chemistry with a person can be easily identified with some careful observation. When the chemistry works out, it becomes nearly impossible to escape from the irresistible attraction. The whole crowd becomes invisible and invalid in the presence of the person with whom the chemistry clicks. The urge for physical intimacy and lust cannot be controlled with that special person. According to Tracey, the absence for physical urge means that the relationship is nothing more than friendship.

In an article in GLAMOUR Sex & Relationships, the author of 'What About Me? Stop Selfishness From Ruining Your Relationship' and New York city- based marriage and sex therapist, Dr. Jane Greer defines " Chemistry is that cocktail of ingredients in which attraction, interest, desire, curiosity, and longing all come together. You're turned on to the person, and you experience it on a physical as well as an emotional level. Think racing heart rate, butterflies in the stomach-there's an excitement and energy that come into play when chemistry is at work."

Other than chemistry the important things to have a healthy relationship is to have compatibility with each other. The people with same goals is said to have a much more positive relationship when compared to people with different goals in life.